Comments on: Is it weird…

By: Helga

Helga — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 07:27:03 +0000

It kinda sounds messy and like a disaster about to happen. Also, your ex sounds like a major douchebag and he doesnt deserve to be friends with people he mistreated. Is it possible that you and Sarah can be friends, without, Ionno hanging out with Jason?

By: Pahn

Pahn — Sat, 28 Jun 2008 10:37:04 +0000

uhhh.. I really don’t know waht to think,, cause I do not think about that sort of stuffs in my case.. but hey, I just make sure I act normal and am moving on with my life,, unless I still have the same feelings, I will make sure I make a closure out of it…

By: Hannah

Hannah — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 23:57:35 +0000

You are wayyy more open about this sort of thing than I would have been. Even though I broke up with my ex, it still would bother me immensely seeing him with a new girlfriend. Being friends with them wouldn’t be right for me… I’d have constant mental images of our past sexual encounters, and knowing that this new girl is now having sex with my old boyfriend would just be an “EWWW” thing for me. Even though I ended the relationship, I still prefer convincing myself that he’s miserable without me. Haha, I’m closed minded like that, I’ll admit it!

Honestly, I don’t know these people so I can’t give you any proper advice on what to do. But, I tend to think that if the relationship didn’t work out with this guy, I don’t think being friends with him would be much better, even if his new GF is nice. There’s probably a lot of “history” there, and I imagine it would be awkward. Do what you feel is right… if you enjoy hanging out with them, then do it. If it makes you uncomfortable, politely tell them so and make your way out of the situation.

By: Kimm

Kimm — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 20:50:40 +0000

do what your gut tells you to do. If she wants to hear the dirt about him or if your uncomfortable around her or them then leave them be.

By: itsjustme

itsjustme — Mon, 23 Jun 2008 05:34:45 +0000

Thanks for the bday wishes, so sweet

Okay… he probably still looks at you in a “certain” way because (1) you’re his ex and he’s probably imagining you naked lol, and (2) he’s a guy, and guys look at any thing that’s 2-legged and female in that way, lol. Sad, but so true.

I say… hang out with them if you want. Don’t worry about it being your ex, because if you feel NOTHING, then there’s nothing to worry about or feel “guilty” about, if that’s your current worry.

And why do BFs always treat you like crap???????? Gah, men suck.

By: brandy

brandy — Mon, 23 Jun 2008 04:50:23 +0000

Its always weird to do things like that with your ex and not feel uncomfortable about it. For me it is anyways, I feel really uncomfortable and end up having all these bottled up feelings lingering on. But thats just me.

By: Whitney

Whitney — Mon, 23 Jun 2008 03:49:10 +0000

I would say as long as you are over your ex then hanging out is just that. I mean maybe she could turn into your friend, even if they asked you to have a threesome- you have standards against it. At the same time you should be respectful of Jason’s wishes. I wouldn’t go around his back to hang out with them, but maybe also explain to Jason how you want some friends around, not just aquantices.

By: Shen-Shen

Shen-Shen — Sun, 22 Jun 2008 03:57:44 +0000

I kinda feel like you aren’t given yourself what you deserve! Just the whole thing about “having a girlfriend is nice, even if she’s my ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend”… I think you should definitely just make those acquaintances friends!

I don’t think Sarah and Jason, no matter how decent they seem to be, will benefit you, especially when you’re in a new place (perhaps looking for a fresh start)?

By: Jenn~

Jenn~ — Sun, 22 Jun 2008 03:18:58 +0000

Hmm, if it doesn’t feel weird for you then I see no problem. BUT.. maybe they do want something b/c why else would they be all friendly to an ex? Especially her!

By: Crystal

Crystal — Sat, 21 Jun 2008 20:37:50 +0000

James actually doesn’t like me hanging out with them, he also thinks they want to have a threesome or something. But I told him he has to trust me. He hates Jason.