Comments on: It all comes crashing down!

By: Crystal

Crystal — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 22:28:23 +0000

Well to answer the question yes, everyone fights no matter what. That’s just life, and in my opinion it wasn’t such a big fight. Words are just words and no matter who you’re with you’ll have fights over money, and saying stupid things. It’ll all be ok.

By: Helga

Helga — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 13:14:23 +0000

Someone needs to slap your boy. Sure, everyone has a different way of showing their love and all, but… bah. It’s just not right to say hurtful things to the person you love =/

By: pink

pink — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 05:14:55 +0000

:angel: hi there… nice to know you.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 18:09:30 +0000

You know what, I sort of feel the same way about not feeling loved. I like my boyfriend a ton but I don’t think he feels the same way anymore because he doesn’t talk to me much. His twin brother pays more attention to me than he does and we talk more than my bf and I do… which sometimes makes me think I’m dating the wrong twin… I know it’s bad.. but I think it’s better than having the twin hate me… I’ve read stories of psycho twins.

Anyway, you are not cheap. Maybe he flipped out only because he felt guilty and he’s trying to act all macho and not want to be looking all apologetic… hehe. Hugs!

By: Kristina

Kristina — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 15:58:12 +0000

*hugs*
I hope it gets better for you soon!

By: Amanda

Amanda — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 15:40:41 +0000

Omg hun.. I feel so sad for you!! He can’t blame it on being Bipolar… He has to work on his sickness..

You know, I have Borderline and I know that when I act “bad” that it’s because of Borderline. But I don’t blame it on that, I never say that it’s because of the Borderline. I know that it is ME. My choice to say the things I say and so on. There is still ME inside. I’ve learned a lot so I am not such an ass anymore (the way you call it haha). I just wanna say with this: He can change too. Maybe talk with him about this when he’s sad or something.. At least a moment when he can talk and not me angry.

My parents had to deal with the wrong me and I am sure that they didn’t said the things to me that they wanted to say. The where not reacting in the wrong way like start to fight back… You should try to not get that angry..

I know it’s not your fault that he is this way, but you have to help him if you wanna stay with him. In this way it’s getting much worse..

If you ever wanna talk then you can always send me an e-mail… Borderline is not the same, but I know how I can act and it can be allmost the same. I also understand how I make people feel.. Sure he does too.

You are a good girl and that is what he needs, but he has to change too and be a good man for you!!! :sad:

By: Brandi

Brandi — Mon, 28 Jan 2008 08:46:39 +0000

Well, that is definitely no fun I don’t understand why boys need to get so angry at such little things. Judging from what I read, it kind of sounds like you had the right to make that comment.

I hope you two make up. Better yet, I hope HE apologizes Saying hurtful things to the person you love is NOT appropriate.

I hope you feel better *hugs*.